IN MY FAILURE

IN MY FAILURE
By: Ferdinand S. Panerio

It is been another day we are facing toward the bright light. First, I wanna say, thank you for those who appreciate the “Healthy Options,” as it brings significance to our present. Actually, our choices reflect our relationship to our courses, our acquired-principles, and even on how we comprehend matters and acted on it. It also reveals the inward attitudes that shaped our characters’. Circumstances and consequences are both ingredient of growing and learning in order to direct and correct us to the moral value. As we sharing the common ground of humanity, we become not exempted for environmental, physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual disciplines. Thus, it becomes my reason to share to you my view- point what I have learned and treasures in my failures in life.

Failures are not all means of big loses, closing stages, or and end sense-value of our approach. My choices take me to the heights, and then bring me to the deepest surface of the grounds. Thus, my experiences it teach me the arts of dealing that I need to live with. My failures were not becomes an obstacle to achieve my desires, but only it gives me series of delays and it helps me to turn my head back toward what my mothers teaches me. In every choices there should always be that cause and effects.

"The world is a dangerous place. Not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it."
- Albert Enstien

In my case, it is not just about a hundreds of failures I encountered or experienced in my life. But it doesn’t mean it same as of today. Even though there were scars left, but it reminds me the lessons I have learned in my time of stupidity, for foolishness, and the others things which are not good. But the most positive things I have treasures and learned in my failures, when it speaks me at sometimes why I do such things beyond my capacity and potency. Most often in my younger years, I never always exercise reasons and excuses. These was the reasons why me and my mother having an arguments at sometimes during my younger years. Because most often mostly it is I always was being situated into series of test. But failing doesn’t stop me, of exploring and investigating things in life. However, it helps me to regulate my times and approach, and aid me on how to remove my vices. Because when I fail something were being delayed, and quite a few consequences and circumstances becomes painful to bear with. The lessons I have in my failures it teaches me to end up those stupidities and not modifying it.

"There are no secrets to success. It is the results of preparation, hard work, and learning form failure."
- Colin Powell

If in my early age, my mother teaches me not to exercise my faith. I am a man that lives like those always wear the concluding and remarks to sling for their neighbor. And it might be the reasons that I have lost my dreams and would never develop what is within me. And if I develop fear to act apart of my dreams, then up to this present I still lose a lot of opportunities to understand His Word. And it becomes not easy for me to learn my weakness and the real strength from within. Actually, my dreams were also part that brings me to series of failures and difficulties. But there were also dreams that I have achieve in my life. For me, learning my failures could not guarantee to make me a wise person but it helps me and assesses me how to move- on in spite of bad feeling and malevolence I have committed. I believe that God’s forgiveness is not mean to stop or take away the consequences’ or circumstances of my ungodly response. Thus, I always keep in mind; failing is a part of growing and learning as one of components for success. When it comes for maturity, I could look at my failures for it good on how it disciplined me, and how it becomes part of the reasons of my present life.

“Slow me, God, inspire me to send my roots down deed into the soil of life’s enduring values, so I may grow toward the stars and unfold my destiny.”
- Wilfred Peterson

Another things that I have learned in my failures is not more about disciplines, but it involves values. I believe that it is the fear that causes us to hide and not to do something of our desires and dreams. As “life is continually filled with emotions tied to daily occurrences of life,” fear not to fail if we want to learn and grow. If it seems that you cooked-up your dreams, it is God who order everything at the right seasons. While He is the one also who give the right procedures and gives fire to our desires if it only in accordance to His will and the moral value. I thank God, that not all circumstances defeating us, but some for good reason for fellowship and our growth. Failure becomes part of life because it gives details of what consequences and circumstances of an improper and inappropriate responses and approach that takes place. But none live a life of always failing many things, if one’s consciousness is not guided-by his own will.

WHAT WE DO IF OTHERS ARE FAILING?

But for over comer who becomes observer of others failures, judge them not! Instead, if you can offer solutions and or advices, be gentle to find an opportunity to help them so that they will overcome. Have you not learned from their failures? Think about such things, others shows that they were failing, but sometimes it’s for a cause if not for our sake, but for the good of all. Failings is not the absence of know ledges, at sometimes there were only less value-applied or the mood of an action is against time.

Don’t take advantage to anyone, each of us have time to mount up. Encountering failures is part of life, but not our life. Failure is just a part of success. If we notice others were failing, let us help them if there something we can give. When we help one person from their failures that troubles their life’s, it worth’s a big things and will multiply. The only justifiable failures are only that comes from selfish desires and wrong motives.

Lastly, I am tired protecting others, but it never gives me good reason to stop from what I am dreaming for and still pursuing in my life. It might be tough and there be would be difficult things that lies ahead, it bothers me not to reach my goals and what I am assume responsibility. In this statement, failure is inevitable. But greater is my faith than my fear because it is not just I who will be benefited my shared dreams. UNSHARED-DREAMS ARE LIKE UNSHARED-VALUES.

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but habit.”

- Aristotle

THANK YOU FOR READING AND GOD BLESS.

FREEDOM?

We Filipino are blessed because in our country we exercise and enjoy our freedom. And they (our forefathers) who help shaped these nations we can consider that their dreamed for us never fail. I am grateful for the courage of our heroes, the Filipino gallant fighter, and the Churches whom shared their beliefs and ideas “in the table” that this present we might have rest in order not to experience the difficulties they were facing. And also I am well pleased and admire the virtue of the Filipino Poet whom fueled the spirit of man to stand for what is right, to defend our faith and our country. If it is not good to give contrast of our past, my only desire is that we learned to give respect of our leaders, the present administration tries it best to straight those what is being curved. But it is not enough to let them (leaders of our country) doing it, while we as a Filipino Citizen might become as one of those spectators.

What my concern? My answer is same what you are hoping and dreaming for this country. But it impossible to happen if I couldn’t give pale of water to my neighbor. And how could we (Concern Filipino Citizen) would have be better able to resist the negative peer pressure that besiege us daily (e-world, new magazines, television, etc.). And as I believe that the YOUth can make change, and with US who dare to do what is right and will be proud for ourselves if well doing so. If no one, who will? The solution and the answers rely not on one man. But our respect of those who are in the authority is sufficient enough that we are still in the “Common-Ground” of what our forefathers designed for their children and heirs to be. And for any simple things that we can do as a Citizen would give means and worth of what we fighting for. With this quoted verse of the book, I hope it may inspire us;
…You can encourage and lend moral support to each other, creating an atmosphere of positive peer pressure……..

Thank you for reading this letter,

TO GOD BE THE GLORY


“Our freedom of expression comes with certain responsibilities. Having freedom in any area is not necessarily a license to do as we please, whenever we please.”(p.9)
- J.W. Brinkley