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In A Foreign Hands
By: Ferdinand Panerio


It is good to have an open-mind as man live under by the grace of God. For me this the moment to treasure the entire thing we comprehend through our experiences and pondered the valued words that means to life. As I take glimpse of my past 15 years, I remember the worst life I had. But instead of giving time to it, now I realized the most that glimpses are for values. And I found out in life that the decisions I make each day reflects my personality and my approaches towards others. But I never comprehend these things without giving ears to my environs and have self- evaluation unto it, including myself. Actually it is not is easy to live a life consumed by assumption without experiencing tremendous challenges and compromises not. To find out the mystery of mysteries revealed only through Christ Jesus our Lord. I come to know these things for enduring what is set before me. Although my life is on the battle of flesh, I still keep in mind His Word that awakes me. For over the years I know nothing about the essence of life, because I am one of the wanderer Christians at that time. I go to church and listen to the preacher but without giving ears to its value. Even though I am less- religious at that time but still I love being as Christian even though I am lacking to fell His presence. Many times I question my faith and throw a lot question to God. But still hard to find an answer, going to Church at sometimes in Sunday is not enough. I was 22 years of age at that time and attended Grace Alliance Church in Makilla, North Cotabato. When it is my first time to visit it was the moment I have still many question. I even not notice God answer to my question. As an IT instructor both pre-school and elementary school, at the same time data-encoder. And again I find it too difficult to work in a foreign land in a foreign hand without being equip to handle or face the negative atmosphere. When I faced difficulties in my job I found that it is too easy to stay. Leaving my job in proper ways without regrets, I realized something must be done but I don’t know where to star, and why the things really happen. Preparing to face the consequences and what circumstances it maybe not easy and always a though things to do.

Hunted by my own self again, it is the inside that soothed me through mental-pictures and dreams that consuming me. At my early age I think that I am encountering failure after failures. But now I realized it is not all failures but something I use a kind of approach that really doesn’t work out well that needs me to find the best ways. In my present environ I learned this things through giving ears and paying attention to the unusual things happen inside and out. When I deal on this matter it is really not easy because I am studying theological school that time and now in present finishing my studies. My fellow classmate and school mates know what the strange things happen to me. Because at that moment I have a lot of questions in my life, my environ, the forces of nature and God only knows. While I am encountering another experiences in a foreign hands again. And in this moment I draw a lot of questions and comments of what was happen around and my surrounding during mid-night and or in sometimes 3 or 4 in the morning. Still there where unanswered questions. Facing a new faces and cultures it is too difficult for me, while I am trying to understand what the strange things happen in me. And when I let not myself to be entertained and be influence by negative forces around me, I become dumbfounded as I see different things. When I share something what happen in my life and ask comments and suggestion for them, I am failed mostly to have the significance answers. Sometimes I receive nothing from my respected friends, even a single sound advice that relates to my questions. But I am thankful to the Lord that little by little He gives me an answer through unusual but special ways. As I seek what the mystery of life, it only revealed through the Lord Jesus Christ. When I pondered His Words it draws my attention to many wonderful things and cherishable insight HE has given to me.

Now, I find it is easy to live as being truly set free. Overcoming the hurdles in life is a really a personal things that takes time and demand our choices. It matters also on how we comprehend the environ. I know that I gone astray in foreign hands both physical and the inside forces. But dealing with it was worth enough through faith. By faith, I learned to trust myself while others throw a lot of negative words. Being without favor of some foreigner while others are alienated with authority, I found and experience the hands of God and even hear his voice. To pay evil for evil really is not good. Being quite and cool knowing that there where time to speak and to keep silence helps me to handle myself and hold my decision. Thus, maturity and personal growth matters on my choices not the time. How we react to the forces around would means to the development of our personality. To be alienated is not all in bad terms. I realized being in a solitary place at sometimes was beneficial of having glimpse for the good times and bad times, it helps me how to evaluate myself.

My experience helps me to build my character and makes me able to give ears to the forces of nature, and His words. And how to deals the present environ that mostly controlled by the negative forces. Then to find our year, that the life without a purpose is the greatest tragedy in life. I believe God makes us for a reason, you and I part of it, glorifying God as well. While having this comprehension that this dissimilarity of approach I am dealing with is also part of the differences (uniqueness) in life that I need to deal with…… while being in the foreign hand in foreign ground where I need to journey in the course of time and spaces that I may find my true self inside………………





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FOR THE MONTH OF DECEMBER

“BEING LOVE IS NOT JUST BEING CARE, BUT BEING DISCIPLINE.”

- F. Panerio

“RECEIVING IS A PART OF LIFE, GIVING IS A GREAT RESPONSIBILITY.”

- F. Panerio

“Some great men notice when they only take their rest, not when they were surrounded by the hypocrites.”

- F. Panerio

“Remember, that we are not just learning the good atmosphere around us, but also to the turning-points of our life that needed most our sincere comprehension.”

- F. Panerio

“It needs us to be there first, for them to follow.”

- F. Panerio

“The only thing I know that would pull me down when that my personal assumption I presume always to be happens.”

- F. Panerio

“A man worth to have respect when he let himself to live on what differences (uniqueness) he have as he going through.”

- F. Panerio

“Shall we take hold these words if it never beneficial, what troubles the mind is that assumptions.”

- F. Panerio

“Enduring must also knowing what it worth’s about.”

- F. Panerio

“What matter really is not how we gather them, but on the way we draw them closer to God.”

- F. Panerio

“These hurdles are not set that we might not endure it, but for maturity and process of preparation as we go through this journey that we will be come an overcomer and victor.”

- F. Panerio

“Patience and love are victor’s power.”

- F. Panerio

“At peace one’s hold his words, because he knows when to speak and to keep silent.”

- F. Panerio

“Forget not your forefather’s faith because it saves them. To have faith in the Lord Jesus Christ is the greatest things above all.”

- F. Panerio

“ASK, ASK, ASK

-IT WORTH A BIG THING”

- F. Panerio

MERRY CHRISTMAS and GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Liberated Through Christ

“Liberated through Christ”

By: F. Panerio

“I give honour to my forefathers for giving liberation to this country, and much more fear and respect to their-FAITH.”

- F. Panerio

We can only fully enjoy what truly means and worth of freedom when we become liberated through Christ. Christianity is not a life just to be experience, but it is a life more wonderful to live with. We can only be fully liberated as the rewards of our faith when we just not give space to the good news, but openness and through comprehension of the works of the Spirit. Liberation is what comes form within through fellowship and also of our divine-fervor. The assurance of faith of experiencing victory and living with it beyond assumptions that even in the moments of uncertainty still that beliefs not swayed by emotion and feelings. Being free from within is not the same from what we experience in this world for it is no bound. When we become eternally secured through Christ it is justifiable when we truly develop peer pressures that would reach far beyond in our circles.

Man can be truly liberated when he becomes more confidence to work and deals with the differences of approaches of surrounding. Each of us should live with the differences of nature that set before us as we continue to fellowship with each others. Because these differences in us signify of our uniqueness that God never created us a mere being. Like the Angels they become liberated through one Spirit, that one day we will join with them singing praises as we glorify the King. Just imagine they were pleasing the God Almighty gracefully and harmoniously. Thus it becomes justifiable enough that Angels have also their uniqueness for His Glory. And think not just of their wings, but the same Spirit that dwells them same in you and me. For we can only be united in Him in one Spirit, and when the days comes when we are one in Spirit of Christ for eternity. Amen

To Forget & Forgive

“TO FORGET & FORGIVE”

By: F. Panerio

It is impossible to be called an individual as Christian, a follower, disciple, and or one lay worker of the Church for Christ-sake if there is unforgiving spirit. When it is hard for a person who were already understood and with comprehension of what was Christianity all about if he/she can’t release forgiveness. Then mostly it resulted to justifiable of having insecurities, envy, or such things that can discredit an individual to be justify as true Christian.

In such view, that these indomitable spirit reside in a person were of pride, envy, and hypocrisy. In short, anything that was achieves by this person either in accordance to his/her responsibility, and or in necessity of his/her field would become an unworthy course. As it justify the unhealthful character with unhealthy competency attitudes towards not the common good as well. The justifiable end signify the indomitable spirit even by just the spiritual forces that helps drives – out wall in the sphere of Christianity he/she even recognized not.

Therefore, let he/she suffer the consequences, for there is no validity in heaven and even in God’s peoples her on earth what were achieve by those who have indomitable spirit. Because, Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior want us to forgive and forget those who hurt us, so that we might share His love. And the fellowship with the Spirit will draw more closely us to God.

Face Your Fears

“Face Your Fears”

By: F. Panerio

Our differences in principles, thoughts, comprehension, values, and ways of approach are consider not hindrance or an obstacles in our field-work, and even in the courses of life as we journey with these responsibility we have given before time.

What hinders us when we let our self-interest become first. If only we learn to live with what grace given gifts and talents we have, then we become more able to take further-steps even if the storms strikes and where heights follows.

As we journey with it, we carry more others pains, but the more joy we can treasures when we help others on how to face their fears. Facing our fears is a tough thing to work-out, because it demands us to leave with our comfort zone. But little by little if we don’t stop, we become more than just a victor not just for our benefits but for Christ-sake and of His glory. Jesus wants us to become united in Him. But for those who builds walls among you in your circles, he/she eternally condemned if he/she learn not to forgive and forget. .

To face our fears is to live with love more confidence than before. Therefore, we are commanded to face our fear to God in order we become more able to share His Love.

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Seasonal Greeting

DREAM ON (BELIEVE)

When we dreams beyond the limits of our strength and capacity it is not foolishness or stupidity. By the good of our motives little by little people around us would become a partner and even become us our mentors, if only we share that dreams. With our divine fervor God would enable to grant the desires of our heart if it pleasing to Him. Most people afraid to have dreams beyond there acquired-strength because they were afraid to encounter and or experience failures. Heyyyyy…. Whaaazzz uuppp? What matters the matter is? Failure is an inevitable part of life as we go further. Our faith would help fire our spirit if we have the sincere desires for the dreams that we wanted to come true. When we are down many times, it doesn’t really matters. When we are judge and criticize, keep going on. Nothing will hold you, if you will let them not to control you. If you are belittled by somebody because of the sized of your dreams, mind them not. Remember, you will treasures the worth of your dream when you were there. Think then that there will always be trial and errors at first, for your own good, and so am I. But after all we become more interesting to reach our dreams when we comprehend the values of our dreams. Try to imagine if without a dreamer we are still on the- CAVE.

“True greatness, true leadership, is achieved

not by reducing men to one's service,

but by giving oneself in selfless service to them.”

—Author unknown

Where we are now is not just through the dreams of our parents, but also because of our forefathers and the present leaders’ dreams.

Our faith would help gives fire to our spirit when we have focus on our dreams. Motives will tells us what really the sized of our dreams and will teach us what the things we needed in order to achieve it. While we deal it time to time, season by seasons we’ve learned by our experience and gain some advices.

Remember, disbelief hinders blessings. So, now if you have dreams beyond your acquired-strength and acquired-knowledge, afraid not. Once you trust Him and have divine-fervor and take heed to His advice, and pay attention to the counsel of the wise, then you will found the clear direction. There was a saying from Benjamin Franklin, “God loves to help to those who help themselves.” You know my brothers and sister in Christ, my experience tells me this to share to you. It is hard to find favor to those closer from us in our circles, but be dismayed not because your helps will comes along the way if you are still on the focus. If they (near from you) can’t give you simple and sound advices when you ask them, then how much more there hands. But don’t be discourage, someone is always there will guide you. Though, some of them have no degree, but they who are in least of service can share to you something. Please understand what the saying below means. Your reflection determines your ability and availability if you truly care of the grace-given gifts that are already in you.

“ Bigyan mo nang pagpapahalaga ang mga bagay- bagay na nakikita ng iyong mga mata.”

- F. Panerio

- ( First Society of the Philippines)

If you truly have the divine fervor you can notice and exercise that grace- given ability you have to possess. With this grace- given ability to act, we become able to pursue the dreams beyond in our strength, when you stop not to show the best you can be as you have the right motives of reaching it.

When you dreams weigh first not your acquired-strength, but what the worth of it, when you live by faith as you take heed His counsel and treasures their (parent) advices. For He gives us not just weighable things that we carry, but faith not just fuel our desires. The worth of magnanimous dream brings honour not just to your family and your country, but to God as you give to Him the glory.

Let me straight to the point, in this article “Dream” is not the main thing here but your “faith” and your “choice” so am I as well not excluded from this. If we fear to have dreams beyond our capacity, then we make limits for the things that we can do when we develop our inner inner personality of who truly we are. Actually, it is not through our dreams we become able person, but through what we have learned and practice along the way. But when we dreams it becomes justifiable of our out-ward- commonness and inner-consciousness, of our acquired-principles, applied-knowledge, most of the most signifies our divine fervor.

Thus, I am actually not encouraging you to have just big dreams, but also to develop our inner-personality. However, it

must be principles- oriented and value-guided approach. Our dreams helps us to stay on focus even when we encounter failures, downfall, and that consequences we need to admit as the causes and effects as results of our less value-response and if sometimes our hard headed-mind sometimes.

Remember, sometimes if not mostly we are the creator of circumstance that defeating us. While some circumstances were permitted for our growth, fellowships, and maturity that matters on how we comprehend the environ and ways of consideration of what happen to us.

“The gallant are those who go beyond the limits of their strength.”

- F. Panerio (First Society of the Philippines)

Part of my present study, I found good phrase of encouragement that produced by our good, well-oriented resourceful teacher Rev. Emmanuel Dañola, and it make sense to me and now to you.

“Instead of wasting our short time here on earth trying to discover wisdom through the process of trial and error, we can go straight to The Book of Proverbs.”

“Proverbs is a short sentence based on long experience”.

- Cervantes in DoQuixote

Now, fear not to have dreams and limit not yourself to have good and cherish able dreams. But forget not to seek counsels and to take heed and advice as you have that dreams. The Book of Proverbs in the bible would gives you immeasurable treasures as our guidance as we live through with our dreams in life.

THANK YOU FOR READING AND GOD BLESS YOU.

WORDS TO PONDER THIS 10.10. 10

“Like the eye which sees everything in front of it and never sees itself, faith is occupied with the Object upon which it rests and pays no attention to itself at all. While we are looking at God, we do not see ourselves--blessed riddance. The man who has struggled to purify himself and has had nothing but repeated failures will experience real relief when he stops tinkering with his soul and looks away to the perfect One.”

A.W. Tozer

.. it be a certain truth, that none can understand [the prophets' and apostles']writings aright, without the same Spirit by which they were written.

The Journal of George Fox

No one is useless in this world

who lightens the burden of it

for anyone else.

—Charles Dickens

The world is moved along, not only
by the mighty shoves of its heroes,
but also by the aggregate of the
tiny pushes of each honest worker.

—Helen Keller

The less there

is of you,

the more the

light shines through!

- TOMMY’SWINDOW.COM

Take away my ability to fail and I would

not know the meaning of success.

Let me be immune to rejection and heartbreak

and I could not know the glory of living.

—Ross W. Marrs

Whenever you fall,

pick up something.

—Oswald Avery

I do not ask that He must prove

His Word is true to me,

And that before I can believe

He first must let me see.

It is enough for me to know

‘Tis true because He says ‘tis so’

On His unchanging Word I’ll stand

And trust till I can understand.

--E.M. Winter

IN MY FAILURE

IN MY FAILURE
By: Ferdinand S. Panerio

It is been another day we are facing toward the bright light. First, I wanna say, thank you for those who appreciate the “Healthy Options,” as it brings significance to our present. Actually, our choices reflect our relationship to our courses, our acquired-principles, and even on how we comprehend matters and acted on it. It also reveals the inward attitudes that shaped our characters’. Circumstances and consequences are both ingredient of growing and learning in order to direct and correct us to the moral value. As we sharing the common ground of humanity, we become not exempted for environmental, physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual disciplines. Thus, it becomes my reason to share to you my view- point what I have learned and treasures in my failures in life.

Failures are not all means of big loses, closing stages, or and end sense-value of our approach. My choices take me to the heights, and then bring me to the deepest surface of the grounds. Thus, my experiences it teach me the arts of dealing that I need to live with. My failures were not becomes an obstacle to achieve my desires, but only it gives me series of delays and it helps me to turn my head back toward what my mothers teaches me. In every choices there should always be that cause and effects.

"The world is a dangerous place. Not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it."
- Albert Enstien

In my case, it is not just about a hundreds of failures I encountered or experienced in my life. But it doesn’t mean it same as of today. Even though there were scars left, but it reminds me the lessons I have learned in my time of stupidity, for foolishness, and the others things which are not good. But the most positive things I have treasures and learned in my failures, when it speaks me at sometimes why I do such things beyond my capacity and potency. Most often in my younger years, I never always exercise reasons and excuses. These was the reasons why me and my mother having an arguments at sometimes during my younger years. Because most often mostly it is I always was being situated into series of test. But failing doesn’t stop me, of exploring and investigating things in life. However, it helps me to regulate my times and approach, and aid me on how to remove my vices. Because when I fail something were being delayed, and quite a few consequences and circumstances becomes painful to bear with. The lessons I have in my failures it teaches me to end up those stupidities and not modifying it.

"There are no secrets to success. It is the results of preparation, hard work, and learning form failure."
- Colin Powell

If in my early age, my mother teaches me not to exercise my faith. I am a man that lives like those always wear the concluding and remarks to sling for their neighbor. And it might be the reasons that I have lost my dreams and would never develop what is within me. And if I develop fear to act apart of my dreams, then up to this present I still lose a lot of opportunities to understand His Word. And it becomes not easy for me to learn my weakness and the real strength from within. Actually, my dreams were also part that brings me to series of failures and difficulties. But there were also dreams that I have achieve in my life. For me, learning my failures could not guarantee to make me a wise person but it helps me and assesses me how to move- on in spite of bad feeling and malevolence I have committed. I believe that God’s forgiveness is not mean to stop or take away the consequences’ or circumstances of my ungodly response. Thus, I always keep in mind; failing is a part of growing and learning as one of components for success. When it comes for maturity, I could look at my failures for it good on how it disciplined me, and how it becomes part of the reasons of my present life.

“Slow me, God, inspire me to send my roots down deed into the soil of life’s enduring values, so I may grow toward the stars and unfold my destiny.”
- Wilfred Peterson

Another things that I have learned in my failures is not more about disciplines, but it involves values. I believe that it is the fear that causes us to hide and not to do something of our desires and dreams. As “life is continually filled with emotions tied to daily occurrences of life,” fear not to fail if we want to learn and grow. If it seems that you cooked-up your dreams, it is God who order everything at the right seasons. While He is the one also who give the right procedures and gives fire to our desires if it only in accordance to His will and the moral value. I thank God, that not all circumstances defeating us, but some for good reason for fellowship and our growth. Failure becomes part of life because it gives details of what consequences and circumstances of an improper and inappropriate responses and approach that takes place. But none live a life of always failing many things, if one’s consciousness is not guided-by his own will.

WHAT WE DO IF OTHERS ARE FAILING?

But for over comer who becomes observer of others failures, judge them not! Instead, if you can offer solutions and or advices, be gentle to find an opportunity to help them so that they will overcome. Have you not learned from their failures? Think about such things, others shows that they were failing, but sometimes it’s for a cause if not for our sake, but for the good of all. Failings is not the absence of know ledges, at sometimes there were only less value-applied or the mood of an action is against time.

Don’t take advantage to anyone, each of us have time to mount up. Encountering failures is part of life, but not our life. Failure is just a part of success. If we notice others were failing, let us help them if there something we can give. When we help one person from their failures that troubles their life’s, it worth’s a big things and will multiply. The only justifiable failures are only that comes from selfish desires and wrong motives.

Lastly, I am tired protecting others, but it never gives me good reason to stop from what I am dreaming for and still pursuing in my life. It might be tough and there be would be difficult things that lies ahead, it bothers me not to reach my goals and what I am assume responsibility. In this statement, failure is inevitable. But greater is my faith than my fear because it is not just I who will be benefited my shared dreams. UNSHARED-DREAMS ARE LIKE UNSHARED-VALUES.

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but habit.”

- Aristotle

THANK YOU FOR READING AND GOD BLESS.

FREEDOM?

We Filipino are blessed because in our country we exercise and enjoy our freedom. And they (our forefathers) who help shaped these nations we can consider that their dreamed for us never fail. I am grateful for the courage of our heroes, the Filipino gallant fighter, and the Churches whom shared their beliefs and ideas “in the table” that this present we might have rest in order not to experience the difficulties they were facing. And also I am well pleased and admire the virtue of the Filipino Poet whom fueled the spirit of man to stand for what is right, to defend our faith and our country. If it is not good to give contrast of our past, my only desire is that we learned to give respect of our leaders, the present administration tries it best to straight those what is being curved. But it is not enough to let them (leaders of our country) doing it, while we as a Filipino Citizen might become as one of those spectators.

What my concern? My answer is same what you are hoping and dreaming for this country. But it impossible to happen if I couldn’t give pale of water to my neighbor. And how could we (Concern Filipino Citizen) would have be better able to resist the negative peer pressure that besiege us daily (e-world, new magazines, television, etc.). And as I believe that the YOUth can make change, and with US who dare to do what is right and will be proud for ourselves if well doing so. If no one, who will? The solution and the answers rely not on one man. But our respect of those who are in the authority is sufficient enough that we are still in the “Common-Ground” of what our forefathers designed for their children and heirs to be. And for any simple things that we can do as a Citizen would give means and worth of what we fighting for. With this quoted verse of the book, I hope it may inspire us;
…You can encourage and lend moral support to each other, creating an atmosphere of positive peer pressure……..

Thank you for reading this letter,

TO GOD BE THE GLORY


“Our freedom of expression comes with certain responsibilities. Having freedom in any area is not necessarily a license to do as we please, whenever we please.”(p.9)
- J.W. Brinkley

Article of the Month

Healthy Option (Part 1)

By: Ferdinand S. Panerio

It is common in our society to make such decision easily. While not considering the possible things might happen, that sometimes too hurt enough and hard to bear. And while the pains remain bleeding and when the wounds are not heal, as considered the results or an out come. And because of rush decision (when guided-by our own-will) then it might be become complicated. In the sense that it would intricate the situations and damage the natural-approach and common-response of a person. Considering that some of our choices would affect every sphererelationship we are belonged to. And while the said complication still not totally affect the inner most part of our being, then I am humbly proud to say, that there are “healthy Options”. Thus, we need to consider the facts, that OUR CHOICES reflects many field or aspects of our life, such us our friends, family, or even the Church, the Society, that primarily influences us and on how we comprehend our role’s to be what we know about ourselves. or

The following OPTION might help you and guide you;

Option 1: Listen

“If we start by trying to pretend to be something we are not, we make it harder to see who we are.”

- Eugene Kennedy. P24

“If You Really Know Me,

would you still love me?”

If we listen carefully not just to our emotions then we are trying and learning the value of such common-approaches. While we also trying to grasp its essential aspects and the means that worth to life. However, listening is not just giving of ears, but paying attention to its values and related means in our dealings with people and our circumstances. And once the mind and heart approve, or when there is agreement it would be you your response after it.

Words to Ponder:

“-our actions govern the characteristics we develop.” - p.27

ARISTOTLE’S ETHICS

Robert Milch, B.A and Charles H. Pattrson, Ph.D

Cliffs notes on Aristotle’s Ethics

Option 2: Learn

“If you think nobody helps you, help yourself and you will know that the world needs you.”

- F. Panerio

As the “world” represent people, while “you” as for yourself, then you know what it means for. You are not born to live and let die. Remember, each of us have its role’s to follow or ways to live for. We are not just mere beings. So learn, it might be a simple word, but its impact would greatly affect us in shaping our ways of comprehension and our personality as whole. The important things you need to learn is learn to face your fears. Remember fear is not the absence of knowledge but lack of confidence to act. But I need you to reflect the additional quotation below, and think about of it.

Words to Ponder:

“-, the man who fears everything becomes coward and the man who fears nothing becomes reckless or foolhardily.”- p.27

ARISTOTLE’S ETHICS

Robert Milch, B.A and Charles H. Pattrson, Ph.D

Cliffs notes on Aristotle’s Ethics

Option 3: Love

“The art of life is not controlling what happen to us, but using what happen to us.” p.22

- Gloria Steinem

Revolution From Within

A Book of Self- Esteem

True love is not just giving and caring a while. True love is building relationship and it’s not creating walls. Most show that they care, yet they build walls and the sense of pride becomes noticeable enough for those whom have good and better comprehension. Now let me direct you to the point. When you truly love, you are not just caring but growing in the sense to maturity. As we believe that the love produce not just better comprehension and relationship but good personality as well.

Words to Ponder:

“Love is like oil to the wheels of obedience. It enables us to run the way of God's commandments . Without such love, we are as nothing <1>.”

from Nelson's Illustrated Bible Dictionary

Copyright (C) 1986, Thomas Nelson Publishers

Option 4: Live

“The less you tell others about yourself and where you are going, the less you enable others to contradict, upstage, outwit and emotionally manipulate you.” p.15

-Rupert Wilkinson

Don’t expect too much for others, you need to exercise what it is in you. When the things get tough, don’t be discourages. Most of our circumstances need enough time to overcome on it. Sometimes we need to be in the solitary place in order to have the glimpse and find relief with our own ways of comprehension and ways of dealing. If open-times you share your troubles to others, you are might not notice that you were pampering an attitude of being always dependent to others, not self-reliant. One of those important things we are needed to do is to have a devotion-life and to develop our religious fervor. Thus, you might not learn to live what you know without such consideration of the people whom become part of your personal development, as a whole. Living what we do believe would lead us to comprehend the things we needed to know. And what are those conceal would be reveal on its given time and purposes. As an advice you need not to delve on the subjects that don’t take you to the led, as means not for soothing.

Words to Ponder:

“Like a river; ‘truth’ are not conceal.

It just happens that only few are- seeker. ”

- F. Panerio

Therefore, as a Christian in faith, a believers, and disciples’ of the truth, don’t think it is an end. Don’t make rush decision that you might regret it later. But always in mind that “exponential-attitude” thinks always that there are always “healthy options.”

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